Everything has a first time, and the first time is the toughest time ! There would be literally nobody in this world who'd not love to go on a date. Dates are some special heart throbbing moments of life indeed. But they can end up a disaster, sometimes. 5 tips for your first date might save you from a blunder. 

1. Choose the right place ! 

Choosing the right place is one of the most crucial part of a date. The place where you go definitely has a control over your senses. Try to avoid crowded and busy places, nothing is going to be romantic there. Always choose peaceful and pleasant places like a coffee shop, a beach or a chat hub for a date. The least the crowd around you, the better your date is going to be. Every city has their own romantic picks. Ask a friend who has a girl friend for a huge list of such places ;)

2. Let him/her do the talking, at times! 

It shouldn't be a male or female dominated date. Give your partner their part of the share. Let them also speak out, a good listener is a better dater. That does not mean you keep sitting with your mouth shut making her feel that you are shy. Try to make the chat interesting. Make sure you talk about their family and friends also, as they can develop a feeling that you really care. Stuff your chats with a bit of humor so that the person sitting next to you doesn't get bored. 

3. If its a restaurant, order dishes that are the least spicy! 

What you eat also determines how you feel. Having spicy food kills the romance inside you both. Spicy dishes can be eaten after the date, give it up for now. Sweets and deserts are the best companions for a date. These foods can energize your senses and make your mind pleasant and happier. If its not the deserts, order dishes that are less spicy. 

4. Pay the bills, or at-least pretend that you would like to. 

Never push the bills to your partner. Always volunteer to pay, there are chances he/she might advocate and pay the bill. Whatever it be, try to be free in spending. This actually matters only for a few initial dates. Once you are comfortable with the other, it doesn't really matter. 

5. Drop her back to where she stays. 

Never say bye at the doorstep of the cafe or the beach. Always go along and drop her home even if she says No. A sense of protection can be developed by doing this and it works wonders. Dates aren't that easy. 

Hope you have a wonderful first date ahead ;)